I blog about female masturbation in hopes of increasing awareness.
Thursday, April 26, 2007
Voulez-vous voyeur avec moi ce soir?
Is it exhibitionist if I imagine my face being videotaped while I masturbate, and that previous lovers/current crushes/random people who think I'm hot are watching?
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A bit. Sounds to me like an exhibitionist fantasy, rather than you being actually exhibitionist. It's only exhibitionist if you actually do it so that the others can actually watch you, rather than imagining it.
I definitely have an exhibitionist fantasy kink then. I don't know that I would actually do it, and if I did I'm not sure that would even turn me on.
My idea has always been that, politically, evidence of what a TRUE FEMALE ORGASM and pleasure looks like might revolutionize some people's thinking and approach to partner sex. But then I figure it might just become another jerk-off video that does nothing of the sort.
"Voulez-vous cocher avec moi ce soir" is a very well-known phrase (a la the song) that means "Will you sleep with me tonight?" or, you know, just "fuck me." I changed the verb "cocher" (to sleep) to "voyeur", which is English but has French roots - and you know what voyeur means. :)
I think everyone (especially women as fantasies can be a very big way to turn us on) has entertained fantasies about things they would never actually do in real life. Sometimes I think about being a prostitute while masturbating, or having an old man touching me...things that I would NEVER want in real life, but they seem so "wrong" in the moment that they turn me on.
5 comments:
A bit. Sounds to me like an exhibitionist fantasy, rather than you being actually exhibitionist. It's only exhibitionist if you actually do it so that the others can actually watch you, rather than imagining it.
What does that French in the topic line mean, btw?
I definitely have an exhibitionist fantasy kink then. I don't know that I would actually do it, and if I did I'm not sure that would even turn me on.
My idea has always been that, politically, evidence of what a TRUE FEMALE ORGASM and pleasure looks like might revolutionize some people's thinking and approach to partner sex. But then I figure it might just become another jerk-off video that does nothing of the sort.
"Voulez-vous cocher avec moi ce soir" is a very well-known phrase (a la the song) that means "Will you sleep with me tonight?" or, you know, just "fuck me." I changed the verb "cocher" (to sleep) to "voyeur", which is English but has French roots - and you know what voyeur means. :)
I think everyone (especially women as fantasies can be a very big way to turn us on) has entertained fantasies about things they would never actually do in real life. Sometimes I think about being a prostitute while masturbating, or having an old man touching me...things that I would NEVER want in real life, but they seem so "wrong" in the moment that they turn me on.
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